Background: One of my best friend's cousins is knocked up for the second time. She had a baby boy about 5 years ago and is now having a girl. She really wants a shower because the first time she was pregnant she was really young and didn't get to enjoy her pregnancy because she was embarassed.
The issue: Best friend's sister and cousin are all in a tizz because they want her to have a shower. They have both been harassing their mom's about them throwing her a shower. Both of the mom's say no. One doesn't believe in baby showers at all, and the other doesn't agree with showers for a second baby.
I said to best friend that if those 2 have such a hard on to throw her a shower, then they should go ahead and do then. Of course, that's not an option.
So now mother to be is throwing herself a shower.