My guy has three children over the age of 18... No troubles from the daughter. She is lovely. But the 20 year old boys..sigh. I can't do anything right. I cook, they won't eat. I listen to music, they don't like it, I bought halloween decorations, they don't like them. Every day it's something new that I have done wrong or I'm not doing right. My man is strong and holds me because he knows it upsets me, and I dont want to come between him and his kids, but by the same token, I'm not willing to let him go. I'm in a mess.
We are in our 50's for petes sake...can't we have our time for happiness?
It's sad that when one of the boys is nice to me, I know the other one is standing behind him ready with another knife for my back or a punch to the gut.
Just venting....