From the moment I've gotten engaged, I've had a best friend who has been trying to make it all about herself. When I invited all of them to lunch to anounce my engagement and ask them to be my bridesmaid, the first thing out of her mouth was "When is your wedding date because we're planning to get married in May too." Keep in mind she is no where close to being engaged, there were no hints or talks about her engagement/wedding until she found out I was engaged. Her boyfriend hasn't even asked her yet and has made it clear that it will not be anytime soon. Ever since then every thing we do has to be about her... We go wedding dress shopping and she starts shopping for her own dress... When my other bridesmaids talks about what they want to do for my bachlorette party, her input is what she would like to do for hers. It's getting to the point now where she is already calling his parents her in-laws and uses his last name with hers. I just needed to vent and also wanted to see if any other brides have dealt with similar situations and what their advice is. Is there a nice way of telling her to stop?