When I envisioned telling my family about my engagement, I thought about how happy and excited everyone would be. I thought there might be a little apprehension, since getting married would move me all the way across the country, but I thought the general attitude would be happy. I never expected the first thing out of my grandmother's mouth to be "oh no!" My mom is happy, my youngest brother is happy, but everyone else seems... reserved. The feeling I get from other family members is resignation more than anything else. My dad was like "Well, as long as you're happy," which sounds ok, but the way it was said made me feel that I am the only one who actually is happy.I mean, is that normal? Maybe it's because I'm a girl and they think they're losing me or something? I thought they liked my fiance when they met him as my boyfriend. Maybe I'm overreacting, but I'm feeling pretty upset. Has anyone else experienced this?