STW - poll

*Barbie*

what is your criteria for success in a sexual encounter?

nicoleg1982

I said SS.  Just *someone* orgasms.  I don't care if it's him or me, but someone better get off if I'm going to deem is successful.

ReturnOfKuus

I picked ss, but not pearl clutchy.  Mutual orgasm is my absolute baseline for acceptable sexual encounter.  It takes a little more than that to deem it successful, IMO.

*Barbie*

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[QUOTE]I picked ss, but not pearl clutchy.  Mutual orgasm is my absolute baseline for acceptable sexual encounter.  It takes a little more than that to deem it successful, IMO.
Posted by ReturnOfKuus[/QUOTE]

successful = mutual orgasm + sea creature man thong?

ReturnOfKuus

I don't even know how to imagine that.

NO!  Don't post a picture!

baconsmom

I'm kinda with Kuus. Everybody getting off is a minimum requirement. I mean, without orgasms, what's the point of sex? And don't tell me to feel closer or express love. That's not why I show up, and I know it's not why anyone else does. Those are bonuses to the main event. 

But beyond that, it depends on personal taste. 

*Barbie*

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[QUOTE]I'm kinda with Kuus. Everybody getting off is a minimum requirement.<strong> I mean, without orgasms, what's the point of sex?</strong> And don't tell me to feel closer or express love. That's not why I show up, and I know it's not why anyone else does. Those are bonuses to the main event.  But beyond that, it depends on personal taste. 
Posted by baconsmom[/QUOTE]

that's my feeling too - i have friends who have casual sex, but never orgasm. I guess i don't see the point in sleeping around if you're not getting off.

kuus - i would, but I'm in the office today. wouldn't want that search on my work laptop.

baconsmom

Well, I did do that when I was younger. But that was more about exploration, really.

These days, I'd have very different requirements for slutting it up.  

nicoleg1982

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: STW - poll : that's my feeling too - i have friends who have casual sex, but never orgasm. I guess i don't see the point in sleeping around if you're not getting off.
Posted by *Barbie*[/QUOTE]

<div>That's a nice idea and all, but reality is that sometimes there's just not enough time/effort/skill/sobriety to put into making me orgasm.  Trust me, I can still have a good time without orgasms.</div>

ReturnOfKuus

I can't.  We tried sex without me getting off once, and not only did I not have a good time, but I was in the foulest mood of my life afterward, worse than a four day constipation.