Okay so am I being crazy for wanting to know how many guests are going to be at my wedding? I think not. Anyways our RSVP date is passed and we are sending out emails to those who have not responded. What is a good way to word these emails? Also how long do I have o wait to hear back from people before I start saying I'm sorry but..... I mean we had a respond by date for a reason right ? So were sening out personal emails to those who have yet to get back. I totally get the people's lives are insane and things slip. But how far do I let it go till I say enoughs enough.