So here is a little back story. My MOH has been hounding me for my bridal shower list bc she wanted to make sure she found a place to hold the shower. I gave her my list, it has a whopping 15 people on it. Most of my family lives in Puerto Rico and my other girlfriends (who are not in the bridal shower) are throwing me a seperate shower. I gave my list to my MOH hoping she'd be pleased since I have a small bridal party (3 girls) and knew that they are on budgets and didn't want to do anything extravaganet. Fast forward to today and I'm at my mom's house and hear her get a call, I can tell it's my MOH. My mom is mubling how about how much and something else and then hangs up. I ask her what was up and she just smiled and said none of your business... So I left it at that. Afterwards we were sitting their talking and my mom mentioned that my MOH is renting a hall for the shower and told my mom that she'll get back to her about the cost. My mom said she isn't clear on all the details but believes that my MOH is going to ask her to help pay. I was under the impression that who ever hosts pays for the bridal shower! My mother and father are already paying for so much of my wedding and I really don't want her to have to put any more money in for something I really don't need. My mother isn't really helping plan for the shower, nor was she asked for ideas, she is basically just tagging along with me. I'm a little taken back because I'm in my MOH's bridal party and she and her mother invited over 70 women and we'd NEVER ask for the MOB to pay for anything since she isn't hosting it. I need to help figuring out what is going on without point blank asking what is going on...
Any suggestions??? Sorry about how long this is!
Chrystal
Aka the future Mrs. Foulk!