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I just had a massive, stupid meltdown

My brother is coming home for T-day for the first time in 12 years.  We are going down Wed. then were supposed to go to DH's family Thursday night.  DH waffled on going to his family.  Tonight he says he wants to go to his family Thursday night, but come home Friday afternoon.

For some reason it made me uncontrollably sad that we were going to come home Friday and basically spend the rest of the weekend doing nothing.  I was okay with leaving my brother to go see DH's family, but for some reason leaving him to come here and sit on my ass made me really sad...like ugly cry sad.  Really ugly cry sad.  They are also having a bday party for my 2 nieces and dad on Friday, which made me sad to miss too.

He even said he the only reason he wanted to go to his folks was because he wants to meet a friend for lunch.  Not the friend from out of state, the one that lives in the same town as his parents.  I'm still having a hard time not crying for some stupid reason.

I'm blaming hormones for the tears.  We decided we'd split up on Thurs evening.  I'd stay with my family and he'd go to his so he can meet his friend for lunch and come home.  We haven't decided who gets custody of the kid.

Re: I just had a massive, stupid meltdown

  • *Barbie**Barbie* member
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    edited December 2011
    why can't you just stay until Saturday evening?
  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    edited December 2011

    Dh wants to get things done around the house.  He's been feeling overwhelmed with work, home, and family responsibilites and thought this would be a good weekend to catch up.

    It hadn't even crossed my mind he'd want to come home so early.  So I was looking forward to some time out.  When that didn't happen I lost it for some crazy, crazy reason. 

  • nicoleg1982nicoleg1982 member
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    edited December 2011
    You mean b/c you're "cooped up" at home all the farking time without much daily adult interaction, which will inevitably be worse once 6lette shows up, and were hoping to spend some time away from the godforsaken house with people you know and love and want to spend time with?  Preposterous!  ;)
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  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_just-massive-stupid-meltdown?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:9a37a0e7-cf24-45e5-ba12-76a67b448540Post:9fd219d2-f7a1-4c50-b11a-a28b16e209f9">Re: I just had a massive, stupid meltdown</a>:
    [QUOTE]You mean b/c you're "cooped up" at home all the farking time without much daily adult interaction, which will inevitably be worse once 6lette shows up, and were hoping to spend some time away from the godforsaken house with people you know and love and want to spend time with?  Preposterous!  ;)
    Posted by nicoleg1982[/QUOTE]

    This! 
  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    edited December 2011

    You hit the nail on the head nico.  I know DH wants to get some stuff done, but 6let likes to follow him around, which means I have to follow both of them.  Not so much fun for me.

  • nicoleg1982nicoleg1982 member
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    edited December 2011
    Tell him you will see him Sunday and stay with your family.  You deserve the time out/off, and good god the chores will still be waiting when you get home.
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