I mentioned someplace that big-sis is dating.
This is a good thing. Big sis is awesome--she reminds me a lot of NOLA (take that as completely a compliment. Big Sis is gorgous and together. She has a faith I don't begin to understand, is kinder on her worst days than I am on my best, and is all around one of the nicest people I know. She teaches and pours her soul into people all the time. She has an active social life and people just shine around her. She's the person who would take Buffy if the Mr. and I drop dead tomorrow.)
So, for...I dunno, 10+ years, bigsis has had a room-mate. Roomie owns the house, is together and all that, also works in education and...hates men. She had a messy divorce at some ponit n the past, before she knew sis. Both of my sisters get along famously w/ roomie--she and I don't dislike each other, but she's always been bordering on hostile toward the Mr.--and the Mr. is one of the people who theorized that roomie had an inappropriate girl-crush on Sis.
Apparently roomie is PISSED that Sis is dating. She's basically kicking Sis out (Sis is buying a house and, convieiently, that coincides w/ the inheritance for a down payment...so--timing is good) and has been telling her nieces (the ones who sis has babysat for for 10+ years--the one sis organizes birthday parties for and goes black friday shopping with and all that) that Sis "doesn't have time for you, she's off with her secret boyfriend"
She's acting like a jilted lover and Sis had known there were some oddities about the friendship and that the relationship leaned toward unhealthy but they went very quickly to "some relationship issues" to "HOLY hell, I guess maybe this was a big deal"
Soo...good news is, big sis really likes this guy, he seems nice, and she's dumping the closted roomie and buying a house
