MIL is an avid fb'er and oversharer extrordanaire. I need to find a tactful way to tell her no fb stuff about baby until we put it out there- which will take days. I know it's going to driver her batty.
I also need to find a tactful way to tell her my mom is in charge of the house and 6let while in the hospital. I can be blunt with my mom and tell her to go/stay/feed someone and she won't be offended. MIL would be more concerned with running the vacuum than feeding someone or letting them sleep.
I know I should let DH handle it, and he will, but I know she's going to defer to me and I'll need to be prepared.