My maid of honor is my best friend. She has been my best friend for about 4 years now.... I asked her to be my MOH because A. she is my best friend and B. I thought she would actually get involved.... So far she hasn't. She went with me to find my dress and that is all she has done. My wedding is in September and she hasn't done anything at all that a MOH does. When I ask her to come to dress fittings she says she can't. She does work full time but her hours are 6 am till 2 pm. She comes home and sleeps after work and does nothing the rest of the night. Her 2 older boys are grown and her youngest is 10 so there is no reason she cannot be more available. She did ask once what I needed her to do and I told her a couple things she could check into. Never heard back.
Well one of my BM's is getting married a month after me and her MOH is very involved and she came to me today with "why isn't your MOH doing anything?" everyone has kinda noticed that and feel bad she isn't helping you in anyway.
I said IDK and honestly been really bummed for quite some time and almost rather you take that role because I know you would help. She said she would love to be MOH.
and I am really considering it.... but how do I do that without ruining my friendship with my best friend who honestly lately I just don't even feel like she is a best friend. I have a hard time cutting ties with people because friends are hard to come by.... I honestly don't know what to do.