1. MIL, stepFIL, and GrandpaIL were going to come in September for like 6 days. A couple of weeks ago, they changed their tickets are now staying with us for 10 days. Ew. No one asked us if that was okay. No one even really asked us if they could stay with us (although why they wouldn't is beyond me because we have the space). I know it's expected but I still want to be formally asked. Instead, I just got an email that said 'hey, here's their air reservations, they'll probably to your house late on XX date and we'll help with cooking while they are here". Thanks.
2. Older SIL is moving back and I do not care or want to even see her once she's here. I find her annoying, and having her live in Alabama or Arkansas or wherever she was living was nice. She came once a year and I saw her ugly mug like once while she was in town.
3. I am annoyed, and I have no idea why, that MIL and clan come in September for nephew's birthday. They make a point to be here around his birthday. They have never once came around the time of DS's birthday. It's not like DS cares (he really has no clue who they are because he's seen them like twice), and I don't really want MIL and her brand of fvckery in my space, but still.