I don't understand why people voluntarily put themselves in situations that are just a hot *ss mess. She knows she's got a herd of kids and school and whatnot to worry about. Why add planning a wedding on top of it? I put off having babies for a year so I could get this law school thing underway. Picture me scrambling for finals, oral argument, summer internships AND lamaze classes.
Further, if you've put yourself in a hot *ss mess of a situation voluntarily, don't complain about it!
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