Wedding Woes

I'm EXTREMELY Pissed!!!!!!!!!

Bachelor parties are SUPPOSED to last ONE day! At least that's what I've heard and seen in the last few years. I got hit with two bombs today.
1-That I will most likely not have a bachelorette party or bridal party due to a bunch of problems.(long story) I don't mind the bachelorette party thing, I can live without that, or so I thought.....
2-I also found out that my fiancé's bachelor party is going to last 4 f**king days! Why does it have to be so long? Now I'm feeling like that it's not fair. He gets 4 and I get none! I know myself, and even if there weren't any strippers, I know I'm gonna go crazy knowing he's out there for this event, if I was stuck at home doing nothing. 

I wanted to coordinate these 2 parties, but obviously that isn't happening. Maybe I'm just jealous, but 4 days? REALLY??????

Re: I'm EXTREMELY Pissed!!!!!!!!!

  • MrsMyrtleMrsMyrtle member
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_im-extremely-pissed?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:b27c5b58-87ef-48e2-acd9-51d622dfc081Post:f2b5f8b9-34ad-4111-beb4-356823f05dc2">I'm EXTREMELY Pissed!!!!!!!!!</a>:
    [QUOTE]Bachelor parties are SUPPOSED to last ONE day! At least that's what I've heard and seen in the last few years. I got hit with two bombs today. 1-That I will most likely not have a bachelorette party or bridal party due to a bunch of problems.(long story) I don't mind the bachelorette party thing, I can live without that, or so I thought..... 2-I also found out that my fiancé's bachelor party is going to last 4 f**king days! Why does it have to be so long? Now I'm feeling like that it's not fair. He gets 4 and I get none! I know myself, and even if there weren't any strippers, I know I'm gonna go crazy knowing he's out there for this event, if I was stuck at home doing nothing.  I wanted to coordinate these 2 parties, but obviously that isn't happening. Maybe I'm just jealous, but 4 days? REALLY??????
    Posted by Wicked515[/QUOTE]<div>I think you just need to chill out. Just because he has friends that care about him and you don't doesn't mean you should ruin his fun.

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  • edited December 2011
    Sounds like you should rent Hangover, then maybe cry a bit...then CHILL OUT.

    If you really don't trust him then don't marry him, if you do trust him then be an adult and let him have his party. 

    Sorry.
  • TheDuckisTheDuckis member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh MrsMyrtle. Have I told you lately that I love you?
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_im-extremely-pissed?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:b27c5b58-87ef-48e2-acd9-51d622dfc081Post:f2b5f8b9-34ad-4111-beb4-356823f05dc2">I'm EXTREMELY Pissed!!!!!!!!!</a>:
    [QUOTE]I wanted to coordinate these 2 parties, but obviously that isn't happening.
    Posted by Wicked515[/QUOTE]

    <div>You do not get to throw your own bachelor/bachelorette. So get over it and let him have a fun time with his friends. Jealousy does not look good on anyone.</div>
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  • ReturnOfKuusReturnOfKuus member
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    edited December 2011
    Four days is rigoddamndiculous.
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  • edited December 2011
    That's a lot of lap dances and fornication.
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  • DG1DG1 member
    Ninth Anniversary 5000 Comments 25 Love Its Name Dropper
    edited December 2011

    If you're marrying a man who can handle 4 days of strippers and booze, maybe a few more years of partying is in order before anyone settles down.

    I strongly suspect the 4 days will include some golf, some time by a pool, one night at a strip club, and maybe some gambling. 

    Seriously. No reasonable adult is going on a 4-day bender.

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  • InksWellInksWell member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Are you one of Charlie Sheen's goddesses?
    Dear Rain, Not Today. Sincerely, My Parade
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