That duchess23 can't be a real person.
This:
I totaly understand how u must be feeling. This is your big day and the things u imagined would hapn ar not. Its not that u ar selfish or anythn, he nids get up nd b strong and look 2 the future. his got a kid nd a wife to look afta so he has 2 man up am sure thats wat his mother would have wanted. He has to leaarn 2 b strong nd du wats supzd 2 b dne wen ts supzd 2 b dne. u and his sista ar his future if nly he had an active dad in his lyf hu cld help. mayb u cld tlk 2 sme1 huz clos 2 him , so u can help him celebrate the life of his mother throw moving forward. lyk sme1 suggested incorporate the things his mum luvd into d wedn.......