Hello all! Just in need of some friendship advice. I will try to keep this brief:
My friend & I grew up together from pre-school on we were very close friends. Through high school and some of college we at times grew apart some and hung out with other people but still stayed in touch. In college we would go a few months here and there without talking, we were both living an hour away from each other and just focused on other things. In the last year and a half we have gotten close again. Often hanging out about once a month and typically texting or talking on phone once a week.
End of December I had some issues at work that I vented to her & was hoping even asking for her opinion about it all via FB message (which isn't uncommon for us and it was late at night). She responded about a week later saying something like this: "hey I forgot to respond to this msg, someone else messaged me on here & I forgot"
That was it, no offer of a suggestion about how I could handle the issue at work no attempt to make me feel better about it. I was mad at her response & still feel burned.
I never responded and still havn't. It has been almost 3 months since I have heard from her or she has heard from me. I'm upset with her bc I feel like this happens often: where I am typically available to listen to her complain about her lazy BF or her parents etc but she isn't there for me, nor does she go out of her way to come visit me where I live. I always am coming to her.
I want to make up for our friendship and I always thought she would be my bridesmaid in my wedding (which is this September). I don't want to make up for the wedding but a part of me is saddened. I don't have a lot of friends where I live now other than work friends.
What bothers me the most is that she has made NO attempt to contact me. Here again not going out of her way to make a friendship work.
Do I let it go and wait for her to talk to me? Or confront her about everything & how I feel?
Thanks!