My situation is very complicated. I love my mother dearly and she has been my constant. I value her opinion. My parents have been serperated since I was a baby and have not talked to each other in over 20 years. When I was 19 I reconnected with my biological father, he is more like a best friend. I had already promised my step dad that he could walk me down the isle since he raised me and I love him a lot. I was trying to get my mothers opinion on how I should do the father daughter dance, either have one song for both dads or two different songs for each. My mom flipped out and said that if I even think of having my bio dad dance with me she would not go to my weddding, no matter how much money he has contributed to the wedding (as of far it is the sum of about $800). I do not know what to do!!!!! I am irritated that my mother would want to ruin my wedding by trying to dictact what I should do, but worried that if I do what I want she wont go (along with many of my other relative). I have 35 days till my wedding and it is too late to cancle anything and start over because I will owe the other vendors. What is your advice?