Hello all,
I'm sorry if I sound like I am whining, I just need to talk to someone about this and my family is driving me crazy!
I don't understand my family one bit. My mother informed my cousins with kids that I would not be inviting children to the wedding because of budget concerns. OK! Everyone was fine and great.
All of a sudden, my aunt offers to pay for my cousins' children to attend. I told her that I would not be inviting children on my side because my fiance's side had several children and we couldn't afford it. And we can't invite my side's kids and not his. (Apparently she did this a while ago, and now she doesn't have any more money to contribute to the wedding, in case anyone is wondering why I am not just taking the money and running)
Well I'm not sure if she told my cousins before asking me or just went ahead and went over my head after I said no, but now they are angry and wondering why their little ones can't come even though their is money for them.
Now my cousins and mom and aunt are all fighting and I am sitting here wondering what the heck is going on. Why oh why the drama!
I haven't called and spoken to the cousins yet. I was wondering if I should? What would I say? I am pretty heated right now because for some reason my mom feels the need to relay all the nasty things they are saying to her about me.
I just feel alone. My family keeps giving me grief, my aunt won't listen to what I want, my mom is making it all about her and here I am saying to myself It's my wedding. It's my fiance's wedding. What the heck about us?
Ah, sad pitty party done now! Thanks for listening. Any advice or words of wisdom would be great!