So at the risk of sounding like a bridezilla...I am feeling extremely stressed out! It feels like I have a hundred things to do (I do) and it feels like I will never get it all done!!! My FI works long shifts and isn't home very much, we have a 3 year old daughter and I am starting a new job next week. So in addition to stressing out about daycare and normal parenting problems as well as normal house cleaning and daily life I am feeling extremely overwhelmed! Our wedding is 81 days away, we haven't signed the catering contract, but we are on their books and getting everything finalized this weekend...have yet to find a dj, cake, photographer-tho I have a couple pros[ective people to do the cake and photos-favors are driving me crazy, haven't even started ring shopping, need to get the stuff to wear under the dress, ugh...invitations...I just feel so lost! I'm drowing in a sea of wedding!! At this point is it ok to take a break from it and just live life without looking at wedding things or is it too close to the date to take a step back? Is it ok to ask my MOH to help me out a little? Getting my dress and finding a place to have the wedding was the easy part! I just feel like this should be a fun experience for us and it definitely isn't. I'm sure feeling stressed is a normal part of planning a wedding but I am definitely beyond stressed. I love my FI and cannot wait to be his wife, but I need either a break or some help! Ugh...Thank you for letting me vent!