This bride neglected to mention her original moh was her sister who is not only a full time student , a full time employee but also sufferes from pulmadary embolisms which she could drop dead from at any time. At the time moh #2 said she would take over and plan everything and little miss bride need not worry. moh #2 has done zero in the planning of the event so the brides sister stepped in and took over. IT IS NOT THE BRIDES RESPONSIBILITY TO PLAN HER SHOWER< BACHLORETTE PARTY,OR ALL THE FUN WEDDING ACTIVITIES!!! Its about the BRIDE!!! Not the friend who was still asked to be involved in ALL the wedding party activities plus read a prayer, sit at the wedding party table, her name listed on the programs as best friend of the bride everything other than walking down the isle!!! All you BRIDEzilliAS SHOULD GET A GRIP AND PUT YOURSELF IN SOMEONE ELSES SHOES! fAMILY IS FOR EVER!!! fRIENDS NOT SO MUCH!