please to be recalling this argument:
http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_weekend-17last night, dh was talking about a coworker that he cannot stand. he showed me an email that this dude sent to him, asking him for information about a topic. dh complained, "why does he ask me for this? it's on the website, it's in the brochure, it's in the press packet! what the what, man."
i pointed out that he does this to me ALL THE TIME -- stands in front of the fridge with the door open and then turns to me, "where's the orange juice" when he should be looking into the place where the orange juice is most likely kept (hint: not in my pockets).
dh kept saying, "that's not the same thing!" but could offer not further explanation as to why it is not.
WINNER: HMO. i'm making myself a championship belt this weekend and wearing it around the house.