my friend of 5 years asked me to be MOH at her wedding. The wedding is this sunday. Over the last months i have been a stellar MOH. I've been wedding dress shopping, threw her a lovely shower, planned to bachelorette parties (one in the town we live in now and one in the town we are from), helped her with countless DIY projects and, I am a baker, and am even making her wedding cake for free....and today, as I was helping her finish her programs, she informed me that she did not want me to give a toast at her reception.
Her reasoning...her very dear friend, a bridesmaid who has been her pal since childhood wants to give a toast. The bride thinks it would be better to have both me and the other BM give toasts at the RD and have the BM give a toast at the reception.
I feel pretty dissed after all I have done for her....do I have a right to?