Wedding Woes

Some further funeral follow-up

1. The musical flowers were mentioned - I was totally waiting for the Tournament of Roses Parade to come down the damn aisle. Why else would you be hauling them around? Seemed like an MIL thing to do.

2. All I could think on the way up was, "How is MIL going to thunderjack this funeral? 'Cause she just totally is." I was really waiting for her to do some crazy shite like throw herself on the casket, but I guess beaming like she just won Miss America was good enough.

3. At one point I thought the place smelled like taco salad, which made me think of Taco Bell, which made me lol a little. L&R thought it smelled like chinese food. Then Hooka thought it smelled like rotten mints. All I can say is, if there was goat in the basement, I hope WonderH didn't have to go pick the damn thing up.

4. Life Lesson: Do not let Mr. Bliz and Hooka sit together. EVER.

5. WonderH is amazing, totally amazing. Not only did he recognize us from our pictures, he gave us hugs. I don't know how he wasn't a puddle of goo. WonderDad was almost more amazing. He talked about what her last couple weeks were like and told us that he wanted us to know she was well taken care of, and that she knew we were all there for her. That's where I about lost it completely. I think although we all *knew* that, but it was exactly what I needed to hear.

6. Her sister is so beautiful and looks so much like her. She was a mess. I thnk we all wanted to go up and hug her, but that would have been weird from us interwebz stalkers.

7. OMG, there were a bunch of people there we totally recognized from various stories. SO HARD NOT TO POINT AND LAUGH.

8. I could practically feel Ww rolling her eyes from the afterlife at the off-key singers (was it mentioned below that one of them showed up twenty minutes into the ceremony? Dude, you can't waltz into the middle of a funeral, climb up to sit behind the person speaking, and expect NOT to be noticed. DUR.). I'm fairly the singers were MIL's doing, and she probably loved them.

9. All day I kept thinking to myself that Ww was going to love this story when we told it. It's like, I know she's gone, but somehow I still expect her to be here.

10. It was so good to know that all ya'll were thinking of her, wearing purple, and listening to Prince all day. Just thinking about it made the whole thing a little bit easier to me--like we were all kind of together, in a way.

Re: Some further funeral follow-up

  • w102mmdw102mmd member
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    edited December 2011
    i love every inch of this post.  Thank you for sharing.  I am so glad that the love between her and the hubs was the real deal.
  • nicoleg1982nicoleg1982 member
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    edited December 2011
    Thank you for sharing this hammydown with us.  I really appreciate it.
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  • MrsMyrtleMrsMyrtle member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh Bliz... *melts into a puddle of tears*
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  • edited December 2011
    more tears


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  • VarunaTTVarunaTT member
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    edited December 2011
    *stamped*  APPROVED
  • Blizzlesgirl!Blizzlesgirl! member
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    edited December 2011
    Hey, what kind of WWer would I be if I didn't share? Storytime is what we DO around here, dammit.

    Oh, and I almost forgot--you'll note that there's no mention of MIL by name in the program when you see it. And that, my friends, is how we know she didn't write it. LOL
  • edited December 2011
    Silly, but I just keep waiting for her to come and post about it.
  • Wan-naBeWan-naBe member
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    edited December 2011
    i'm with whoever said that cinny's recap of this would have been EPIC.

    thank you for adding to the story - it's awesome.
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  • TajahTajah member
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    edited December 2011
    I am deeply moved by this post.  I *knew* her as Cinnamon Spark, some years ago, did not know she was ill, and was thinking of her so strongly on the day she passed over.  I was so saddened when I heard the heart-rending news.  I have been sending blessings to her beloved H., and her beloved dad (who i remember pictures of from her wedding day, and of course to her on her journey.  Its good to come back here and read of all the love.  I am deeply sorry for all of your loss, indeed, a loss to the world.
  • zsazsa-stlzsazsa-stl member
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    edited December 2011
    ::hugs Bliz::

    Thanks.  We need all of the recap we can get.   I'm sooo glad that you guys were able to go.
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  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    edited December 2011
    Thank you for the recap.  My heart breaks for everyone who loved her so.
  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    Between you and Hooka, you have done the recapping of the Wonder-memorial proud.  Ww is smiling upon the board. 
  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    ::hugs bliz:: It's sad to see you in these circumstances, but thank you for sharing.  :)
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  • ~~Busy.~~~~Busy.~~ member
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    edited December 2011
    Thank you.
  • edited December 2011
    Thanks.
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