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WWWWA? Interview halp

This is a little bit of a post and run right now, baby is napping in her swing and I need to clean the kitchen. I'v been setting up interview with part time nannys for when I go back to work next month. I have some very obvious questions in mind, but is there anything you guys would ask the person coming into your home to take care of your baby? TIA.

Re: WWWWA? Interview halp

  • hmonkeyhmonkey member
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    edited March 2013
    references, yo.

    i would also ask a lot about expectations: what she wants, and what you want and make sure they are aligned.  is there hosework involved?  what about emergency care?  does she have a car (and where does she park it!?)?  do they shoplift and think it's funny?  when a website has a clearly mismarked item, do they try to buy it anyway and cry foul when the website refuses?  do they drink rice milk?  where do they buy their makeup?
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  • References--as many as possible, and really poke around in them. 
    Are they through an agency?  If not, definitely a background check, otherwise the agency should handle that for you and provide you with the actual results, not just "He/she checked out."
    Disciplinary philosophy
    Screen time philosophy, and how it meshes with yours
    Typical daily schedule with a baby M's age, 6 mo old, 1 yr old
    CPR/First Aid certifications/retest date
  • How do they feel about parking in neighbor's driveways and/or in front of mailboxes?

    And I'm giggling about the expectation of "hosework."
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  • References all the way baby. Along with background checks, I am going through an agency of sorts Heffa, so everyone has BGC's already for the most part an I will have my Dad double check them. Have a PI for a dad can often times be a good thing. And the rec to ask about routine with her is awesome, hadn't thought of that.

    There is plenty of hose work to be done and I intend to have her park on my neighbor's lawn. If she does shoplift maybe she can get me some new clothes.
  • Experience/comfort with animals. This is the #1 reason we're hoping to do daycare instead of a nanny, but if it comes to that, "How do you feel about pit bulls" will probably be higher on my list than "Do you know infant CPR?"
  • HEALTH:
    1.  Has she had experience with various childhood illnesses, and does she know the symptoms and how to handle various medical/health situations?  I.E. broken glass or splinter injury, head injury, fever, rash, phlegm, spots on tongue?

    2.   Fire safety, emergency preparedness - does she know what to do?

    3.    CPR training (I would consider this mandatory)
     
    4.   Has she ever given medications? 

    FINE & GROSS MOTOR SKILLS DEVELOPMENT:

    1. Is she familar with the above terms, and can she list off 2-3 ways in which she would encourage development of both types while with your child?

    VOCALIZATION:

    Same

    (going to bed, or I'd post more)
  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    Just from some things I've seen people complain about, I'd make sure she has reliable transportation.  Establish expectations for outings too- library time, zoo, playdates, whatever.  Make sure that you are comfortable with them as a person. 

    When the time comes make sure your contract clearly spells out pay, overtime, vacation/sick time (for all of you), hours, and holidays. 

    All of this makes me realize I'd make a terrible nanny.

  • Jojo - DH is great with children.  Will you pay moving expenses?  ;)
  • TheMrsC23TheMrsC23 member
    500 Comments
    edited March 2013
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_wwwwa-interview-halp?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:e26edd5c-d661-4a6b-a08d-6b947c7f2425Post:fb0109b7-e11f-4382-816a-cf8438428643">Re: WWWWA? Interview halp</a>:
    [QUOTE]Just from some things I've seen people complain about, I'd make sure she has reliable transportation.  Establish expectations for outings too- library time, zoo, playdates, whatever.  Make sure that you are comfortable with them as a person.  When the time comes make sure your contract clearly spells out pay, overtime, vacation/sick time (for all of you), hours, and holidays. <strong> All of this makes me realize I'd make a terrible nanny.</strong>
    Posted by 6fsn[/QUOTE]

    Hee.  True story.

    ETA: I meant, I'd also make a terrible nanny.  Not that you'd be a terrible nanny, 6.  :)
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