he cheated before he officialy popped the question. we talked about getting married before but i did find out that he had cheated on me and was flirting with numerous girls and even denied dating me not me specificaly just said he was single instead. i ended it instantly but then a week later we were talking it out talked about trying it again and then something happened probly just some insecurities on my part that made me call the trying to work it out off then he popped the question and i figured that im not going to throw away a good life for one mistake. so we are still together now. broke up once because he was going to spend the night at a womans house to "hang out" so this time i beat him to the punch and cheated on him told him the next morning and ended it (turns out he never went to her house anyways but..) anyways to add more to it period was late so i took a home test and it was positive i told him and he said he still wanted to be together regardless of a baby or not. when i broke up with him the second time i wanted everything to just be over with so i wouldnt have talked to him cept for the pregnancy but when to a pregnancy help clinic a few days ago and the test was negative we are still together though even though we are in limbo about if there is a baby or not. anyways my main reason for this was everyone says dont get back with a cheater once a cheater always a cheater ect. he has done a total turn around behind my back and infront ( i read his emails bad i know but ive got to make sure) if you were in my shoes would you say that i made a mistake agreeing to work it out the first time? or did i do the right thing?