rsvp vent...sorry

mtdsg09

We have a few who are late, date was last Friday and we've called, left messages and no call back...REALLY??  And some think its okay not to send the card back, just tell us....I am being crazy or something??  Just a little annoyed, needed a vent moment.  TY!

icebunie

If you need to let your venue know, count them as no's. I know with my venue they couldnt subtract, but if we had additional guests, they could accomadate.

Robinc612

No you are definitely not being crazy.  However, I am now scared, because my wedding is November 14th, and I have my RSVPs coming back October 26th...do you think this is too late?? I am now starting to panic! I wish people would just send the card back when they get it...how hard is it to put a card in a mailbox? Thats why there is a STAMP ON THERE!

JSantilli

I am so with you- I now have people saying they can't come, and I'm so pissed! The seating chart is pretty much done- now what!

soon2bgreen814

I never knew how hard it was for people to RSVP until planning the wedding. We still have one person who is still undecided if they are coming or not...seriously?! Said would let us know last week and it is now Tuesday. They are a no in my book even if she does call now.

IdigDirt

We had 2 people insist on bringing dates and then a week before the wedding (after we had to have our numbers in) call and say they don't have dates anymore. These were also people we had to call and harass for RSVPs in the first place. Is saying yes or no then putting a card in the mail so hard?