Hey Ladies---Hope everyone is having a wonderful summer and that any of the brides that I missed since I haven't been here in a while had wonderful weddings and hope everyone else is enjoying the planning. Work has been crazy busy and lots of family things going on so I haven't been able to post till now. So my question is my parents are divorced since I was 7 for a good few years my father and I didn't speak. We have reconnected but seem only to talk at holidays if I see him. He is invited to the wedding so I guess my question is on the invites would you list like Mr and Mrs so and so and Mr. and Mrs so and so just my mom and stepdad and fi parents or should i list my dad and his wife too even though they haven't contributed and I haven't seen him since xmas and last time I talked to him was through a text message on my 30th birthday. Just not sure if I want to be the bigger person and not slap him in the face that he doesn't really count by not putting him listed as a parent you know on anything the invites or the program where it says bridal party. Sorry long post after not being here but I knew I could get unbiased opinons from the girls on here.

thanks ladies:)