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Question about Invites and Program

Hey Ladies---Hope everyone is having a wonderful summer and that any of the brides that I missed since I haven't been here in a while had wonderful weddings and hope everyone else is enjoying the planning.  Work has been crazy busy and lots of family things going on so I haven't been able to post till now. So my question is my parents are divorced since I was 7 for a good few years my father and I didn't speak.  We have reconnected but seem only to talk at holidays if I see him.  He is invited to the wedding so I guess my question is on the invites would you list like Mr and Mrs so and so and Mr. and Mrs so and so just my mom and stepdad and fi parents or should i list my dad and his wife too even though they haven't contributed and I haven't seen him since xmas and last time I talked to him was through a text message on my 30th birthday.   Just not sure if I want to be the bigger person and not slap him in the face that he doesn't really count by not putting him listed as a parent you know on anything the invites or the program where it says bridal party. Sorry long post after not being here but I knew I could get unbiased opinons from the girls on here. :) thanks ladies:)

Re: Question about Invites and Program

  • jessica0602jessica0602 member
    Eighth Anniversary 500 Comments Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    hey jen!!  when I did my invites, i just put our names, "together with our parents" which seemed to encompass everyone. are you working with katie?
  • edited December 2011
    You could write together with their parents or just bride and groom invite you. I think if I were in your position I would go one of those 2 ways to stay as drama free as possible.
  • ButtonsPepperButtonsPepper member
    2500 Comments Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    We have my parents, ourselves, FI's dad, Fi's mom and her husband contributing so we are doing "together with our parents" it seems to incorporate everyone.
  • jns0901jns0901 member
    First Comment
    edited December 2011
    Thanks for the advice ladies---think I am going to go with the together with our parents to avoid the drama.Hey Jess,how are things, yeah Katie is doing them for me she did my save the dates too...hows the plans?
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