My mom is so very ill and because of that we are having an emergency wedding the last of Aug. It is a different style even the colors are changing and I am mad because I want the poofy dress that would NOT go with a wedding in my back yard and sad because I can;t let on. I don't want my mom to feel badly that the plans have changed. So now I am trying to get it all together in barely over a month with a simple white dress that you could weare anywhere. and I feel like as much as I can not do this without my mom I feel guilty that I am so resentful that its not even half the wedding we had planned. But I do need her there and worry she may be weak by Oct. 7th to attened anything. I am such a hot mess right now. Help please.