The dress I may no longer love

vscheidt891

I bought my dress, which is absolutely gorgeous. But now I am wondering whether or not it is really the dress for me. Its great, but I don't really get that bridal feeling when I look at it. What should I do?

Should I just chill for a little while, cause maybe it is stress and not really the dress? or should I go and try on other dresses to see if I find one that gives me that feeling?

kimmieniesink

My first question would be why would you buy it in the first place if it didn't give you that bridal feeling? Maybe you are the type of person who won't really get that bridal feeling when you put on the dress, it might need to be put on with your hair all done up and wearing a veil or something to give you the desired look and feeling you want? Try that perhaps.

zsazsa-stl

you've lost that bridal feeling
oh that bridal feeling
you've lost that bridal feeling
and it's gone, gone, gone
whoooooaaa 

It's a dress.  Don't expect little song birds to land on your shoulders and sing every time you look at it.

TheDuckis

Having second thoughts about your dress is normal. Going out and looking at new dresses is only going to stress you out, and buying a second wedding dress is a phenomenal waste of money.

vscheidt891

When I first put it on I did love it, and I'm sure I still do. I think I'm just stressing. It is a beautiful dress. I will give it time and let some of the chaos die down. 

http://www.alfredangelo.com/Collections/ProductDisplay.aspx?productID=3faf4a82-e151-4722-bcff-613e62c0d32f&categoryID=32e5a88c-cbf1-498f-afcf-dbfca138c5d3&pg=2&colorId1=

playazsweetness

the dress is gorgeous!  Im sure it is all of the stress

kimmieniesink

It is a very nice dress, I am sure it will be lovely, don't worry!

bmcco010

i think its the stress but if it really gets to you take the dress with you to a salon try on a few others then try on the one you bought again, check and see if you get the feeling ur looking for. But please this process may further confuse you, so i would relax and mull it over a bit first dearest.