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Evil FSIL Help!


The FSIL is taking over my wedding /><

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Re: Evil FSIL Help!

  • TheDuckisTheDuckis member
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    edited December 2011
    Can you rewrite this coherently so I can understand?
  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    edited December 2011

    I didn't follow most of this.  Are you just printing the invites for a wedding in 6 weeks?

  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_evil-fsil?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:fe6e3c15-6d76-44f6-bf42-5f1ae5ac3c75Post:ec281590-2d3a-489a-9f12-6d1c234e0e22">Evil FSIL Help!</a>:
    [QUOTE]Ok so  I need to rant just a little. My Future sister in law is trying to take over my wedding and I need a way to stop her fast /><..Since the day I got engaged she thought she was engaged or somthing. See when she got married her mother and father paided for the whole wedding and her mom took over and didnt let her plan anything. Well now she thinks that she will plab mine for me.,.It all started with flower girl stuff which is a whole differnt story. The issue is now that my printer would not print my invatations so unwillingly asked if I could do them at her place. The moment I let her house she was leaving LONG RANT sorry me post on FB of ways she thought the invatations should be />< grr I stood my ground and said NO! I want them done like this. Well I went bac today still no invatations done and I sat there while she filled full of more crap..Now she is saying that her husband (which is my FIs brother that he is mad that he is not in the wedding party and does not even care abut the wedding. My FIs brother is a really nice guy and I do not think he would say that..Beside that my FI has 2 other b rothes besides him so he just thought he would do his close friends and not worry about having one brother and not the others.. Anyways she thinks she has to give me advice about how everything should be or how she did this and that well I have had enough and I am like 6ish weeks from the wedding and I am getting this feeling that I may flip out real soon. What the heck should I do??!!
    Posted by orffh[/QUOTE]

    I stopped at "paided".   You're an assault on the English language.
  • Butter CookieButter Cookie member
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    edited December 2011
    Take your invitations to Kinko's. They will not have an opinion about your wedding. Stop discussing your wedding with this woman. Invite her, but leave it at that.
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  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    I stopped at paided.  Sorry.
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  • edited December 2011

    If your wedding planning is anything like this post, you need to let someone take over.

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  • TheDuckisTheDuckis member
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    edited December 2011
    How do people like this make it to adulthood?
  • edited December 2011
    I had to stop at "paided".
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  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    I read through that mess and I don't understand anything.  You didn't finish a thought anywhere in that whole post.  I fail to see how she's 'evil'.
  • hmonkeyhmonkey member
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    edited December 2011
    ?puedes decir esto en ingles?
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  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    gracias y por favor.
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  • pixiedust84pixiedust84 member
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    edited December 2011
    It's like she's trying to tell us something! I know it!
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  • kpwedkkkpwedkk member
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    edited December 2011
    Well, if your FSIL had her whole wedding paid for by her parents, and she wants to take over planning yours, then tell her that she's paying for it.

    Spell check is your friend.

    "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt with the heart." ~ Miss K ~
  • orffhorffh member
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    edited December 2011
    Thats what happens when your so pissed you just type and do not check spelling and such MY bad...She is evil because ahe wants to take over my wedding. What is so hard to understand about that
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  • edited December 2011
    I . . . don't . . . what?
  • kpwedkkkpwedkk member
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    edited December 2011
    She is still your fiance's sister.  So she can't be the root of all evil :)

    "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt with the heart." ~ Miss K ~
  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_evil-fsil?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:fe6e3c15-6d76-44f6-bf42-5f1ae5ac3c75Post:7cbdb31b-4f38-4356-8c94-0c977c807ea3">Re: Evil FSIL Help!</a>:
    [QUOTE]Thats what happens when your so pissed you just type and do not check spelling and such MY bad...She is evil because ahe wants to take over my wedding. What is so hard to understand about that
    Posted by orffh[/QUOTE]

    I don't think I've ever been so angry that I've completely lost my grasp on the English language.
  • hmonkeyhmonkey member
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    edited December 2011

    what is it, girl?  is timmy down the well?

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  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    Ded, Hmo, just DED!  
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_evil-fsil?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:fe6e3c15-6d76-44f6-bf42-5f1ae5ac3c75Post:664d247d-7035-461e-b710-9d4abffa0b10">Re: Evil FSIL Help!</a>:
    [QUOTE]what is it, girl?  is timmy down the well?
    Posted by hmonkey[/QUOTE]

    This reminds me of the Family Guy episode where Stewie is in trouble and Brian is trying to tell Peter and Peter doesn't understand til Brian barks like a real dog. I love it when Brian does real dog things.

    (P.S. Yes, I know it's not <em>from</em> Family Guy)
  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    *SNORT*
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  • baconsmombaconsmom member
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    Why is everything divided by morethanlessthan? />< What is that? 
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  • TheDuckisTheDuckis member
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    edited December 2011
    Nope, sorry. Killing babies = evil. Trying to help you plan a wedding that you obviously need help with =/= evil.
  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    Wow.  And somehow that tiny little DD is more helpful.  Not sure how...but it is.
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  • kimberlyleekimberlylee member
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    edited December 2011

    I've never encounted such rude and cruel people in my life.... So what if she's a little bit careless/absent minded with her typing. Some of you should be ashamed of yourself... but then again y'all would know that first hand.

    Do not ask control freaks for help... it is in your best interest (mentally) to exhausted all other options. If you do not want something.... you need to be firm.  Everybody seems to love wedding more than the bride especially PAST BRIDES hint hint!

    Don't stress over it... Just keep telling yourself it would be worth it on the day when you see how happy your Fiance really looks with that smiles that reminds you that you are the only one for him.



  • BeeBee22BeeBee22 member
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    edited December 2011
    Seriously OP, impenetrable first post aside, she can't take over your wedding unless you let her.  I didn't understand whatever you were saying about invitations, but Butter Cookie covered it.  Go to Kinko's and don't discuss your wedding with her.  And don't get defensive when you publicly post something that looks like you typed it with your eyes closed.  While drunk.
  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    You're right.  I'm so ashamed now.  yep.
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  • baconsmombaconsmom member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_evil-fsil?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:fe6e3c15-6d76-44f6-bf42-5f1ae5ac3c75Post:5b0dba75-d4fc-4ded-a72a-1da7a4338608">Re: Evil FSIL Help!</a>:
    [QUOTE]I've never encounted such rude and cruel people in my life.... So what if she's a little bit careless/absent minded with her typing. Some of you should be ashamed of yourself... but then again y'all would know that first hand. Do not ask control freaks for help... it is in your best interest (mentally) to exhausted all other options. If you do not want something.... you need to be firm.  Everybody seems to love wedding more than the bride especially PAST BRIDES hint hint! Don't stress over it... Just keep telling yourself it would be worth it on the day when you see how happy your Fiance really looks with that smiles that reminds you that you are the only one for him.
    Posted by kimberlylee[/QUOTE]
    Careless typing =/= complete and total incoherence. If she wants to communicate, she needs to be clear. We're not psychics, and most of us don't read anything but English - which she was not using to properly convey her thoughts. <div>
    </div><div>Do you always ask for help with something by rambling crazily and then getting mad when people don't understand what you need? </div>
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  • TheDuckisTheDuckis member
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    edited December 2011
    Really? Everyone else loves weddings more than the bride? That may be the least accurate thing ever written on the knot.
  • edited December 2011
    She's trying to help you?! THAT BITCH!
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