Okay, so my FI and I are huge geeks. We like marvel comic books, video games, batman, Pokemon, bad movies, and we both believe that we belong in a different era. Problem is, we want very traditional, very elegant wedding, and being that we both act about 14, it doesn't feel like there is a lot of "us" in the ceremony or reception.
I've decided that I'm going to make myself a batman garter, but beyond that and the grooms cake, I'm not really sure what I can do. I want fresh flowers, a reasonably plain and traditional wedding cake, and we aren't having a sit down dinner so escort cards and table numbers are kind of superfluous.
Any suggestions on where I can include pieces of us into the wedding or reception?