okay so i was talking with my dad last night and he wants me to invite family thaat i dont even know or dont talk to and i told him you know dad i want my wedding to be ppl i actually talk to and want to share this day with me and plus im working on a tight budget i dont have money to invite all these ppl. he says but its famiily ...see where im from you invite the whole family and who knows who else they may bring and they usually dont rsvp...where im from weddings usually cost under 3000 but its differnt in bigger cities things costs more...so without breaing my budget and without hurting ppl what should i do im soo frustrated with this stupid family custom.