We are having a 2pm ceremony, and pictures immediately afterwards. Our venue is a private chalet, where the ceremony is upstairs and the reception downstairs. However, the buffet reception starts at 6pm. We have invited guests back to the chalet for 5pm for drinks.
Is it unreasonable to think guests can leave after the ceremony and head to town (2-3mins away), and return between 5-6pm? I like the idea of serving some food with drinks at 5pm, but my FH does not. His family says it's not uncommon to have gaps between the ceremony and reception, and it's not MY/OUR responsponsibility to entertain them or feed them until dinner.
Any suggestions or etiquette advice on this? Thanks!!