We're getting married 10/2010. The hall, photographer, dj and florist are all booked. The dress has been ordered and the wedding party decided. Around the 4th of July I found out that my work will be closing and before the end of this year I will be out of a job.We're not religious or anything like that, but believe in everything marriage stands for - love, respect, family. We both want a wedding. The ceremony to exchange our vows in the company of our loived ones and then a big party!Now that I'm about to lose my health insurance we have been talking about doing the JOP thing so I can get on his plan at work. The logical side of me says do it. Its really only taking care of the legal part of it anyway right? Still I worry that it will lesson the moment if we are already married a year before the actual wedding.I know there is going to be opinions all across the spectrum on this one but I still would like to hear what others think. Perhaps you can offer insight that would help put this into perspective for me.