So my fiance and I are down to our final two venues and need to make a decision. One he really likes, its a country club with an outdoor deck and great views. He loves golf and I am learning to play and he is thrilled about smoking cigars on the deck outside. Its also at the base of a mountain and we love hiking. The other is a baquet facility, not a lot of outdoor space but set up for photos, no natural light, but fancy and polished. I think both places are nice, but is it possible to have a venue that "too us" that I won't feel special? I really want to feel like a princess on a my wedding day. Also I hate cigars... what do I do?