So my BF and I aren't engaged yet, but we've discussed and I know it's probably a matter of months before he pops the question. I'm excited about it and I can't wait to plan a wedding, but I'm already worrying about where we'll get married. You see, my guy is from Baltimore and recently changed jobs and moved to the Cleveland area so we could be together. We'd been dating for about 2.5 years long distance and have finally adjusted to living together and are really enjoying it. However, given that his family is in MD and mine is here in Ohio, it really causes a dilemma in choosing a wedding location. If we choose someplace outside my hometown area, very few people on my side will likely come because of finances and time off work. On his side, probably a few more people would make it to a "destination" wedding, but not many. So what do we do? Have a wedding in Baltimore with only a few of my family members and a second reception in Ohio? Do a destination wedding with just a few people in attendance? Ideas are so very welcome here

Thanks!