How many is too many? My FI has a list of 8 and I have a list of 6. I have another friend I can ask but that still would only be 7 on my side. Do you think it matters if it's uneven? How do you work that when one side has more? I don't want to ask just anyone. Plus, I don't want the party too big. I also have 3 Jr. bridesmaids. Ugg! I originally didn't want to have any kids but it just got too complicated not having my neices in it.