My fiance and I go to a small church and really want to have our wedding there. The problem is I have a long guest list. We thought that we would have a small intimate family wedding and take our reception to our local waterfront pier. We were thinking of renting part of the outside atrium. My mom however thinks it may be rude to only invite family to the wedding and then have a bigger reception for everyone else. Anyone have any ideas or opinions? The reception is also about 15 min from the church....is that too out of the way for people to drive?