I am still deciding on whether to have my reception at the church and then an after party later on for the drinking part at a different location. Some of my friends might get a little to plastered if there is an open bar at the reception and I have family members who don't mess with alcohol at all. I just don't know what to do because I'm having a live band and want to have a good time with alcohol included, but still afraid it will get outta hand and family members get upset. Please give some opinions THANKS!