So my dad and I are not close at all... matter of fact we don't even talk. I let him know that I was getting married because I felt it was the right thing to do but I have an older brother who we have always been close and I am going to have him walk me down the aisle. Since I don't want to do a father daughter dance is there something else I could do because i know there will be a groom/mother dance. What are your ideas?