My fiance and I are debating on wether or not to have an outdoor wedding/reception in an open field (despite our families "ideas"). I want to have a very relaxed atmosphere with some pulled pork and maybe some chicken for dinner?. It would be an open field with nothing else around. Does this sound too relaxed? Or too "not-classy". I am not a very elegant person..not necessarily a country girl either...just relaxed. Does this sound okay?