I'm having a sunday wedding, the ceremony and the reception are in the same place,We are having just a cake and toast reception, the ceremony starts at 1:30, the reception at 2:00. I have got a dj, The reception will only be from 2-5 pm. Between doing the cake,toast,first dance, garter toss, should i have dancing??? I really want a casual wedding, not a party. But i also think it would be nice for people to be able to dance, do u think it ok to just play love songs, and just have guest slow dance, if they like. Or just use the dj for background music?