My father will be at my wedding but my brother will give me away. Does anyone know a good song to dance the brother/sister dance?
My brother is 8 years younger than me but I was his "momma" growing up. Mind, we are not the only children -- there are 7 total -- he's just the only boy (and #5). I was the one he ran to when he was scared, excited, depressed, sad or happy. I was the one he told his secrets or asked advice and the one he brought stray animals home to. I was the one that ran interference with my parents to keep him out of trouble.
When I married the first time, my brother was had just turned 12 but our relationship remained the same. I was his safe haven and it was my responsibility to look out for my baby brother. When my marriage ended, I was in a very dark place, mentally. He would take my children for the weekend or just come spend time with them. My brother allowed me to grieve and lash out at everyone for about a year and then he gave me a speech that made me stand up and take notice of my actions. That speech and the advice he gave put me on the road to healing and making things right in my life.
Fast forward about 5 years -- my brother and his long-time girlfriend broke up and he asked could he stay with me. Of course, I said yes. That was 4 years ago. My sons are grown and gone but my brother and I still live together. We have always helped each other and I love him dearly.
At this time, the song that most stands out for me is "There You'll Be" by Faith Hill. Does anyone have any other suggestions?