We are having a destination wedding and then a reception afterwards when we return. We are having a cocktail, hors d'oeuvres and music reception and we are wondering what time would be a good time to start and also how to include this in the invitation so people knowwe are not having a sit down dinner. Our idea right now is to have the reception start at 7. Have food out till 9 and music till 12. Any thoughts, suggestions or ideas would help.