I'm thinking of having a long Tuscan style head table. All of the pictures I've googled just show the table set up with chairs on both sides, and at both ends. Where do the bride and groom sit; on an end or the middle of one side? Also, how does it work if the BM and MOH give speeches? If they stand at their seat won't their backs be turned to some guests? Or should they stand somewhere else? (mine would have guest rounds on both sides of the HT)