We got married July 14th and we planned on just having a reception when we got back as more of a party. We were just going to have it in our garage and have more of a cookout and just have a good time and tell everyone gifts are not necessary. Well here it is August a month after and can't get husband to let me set a date for reception. How long is too long to have a reception because even to plan one it will still be end of September or October before I could have one. Is that too late? I feel like any longer than that is almost ridiculous.