Ok so my FMIL keeps telling my FI that I am not right for him and that he can do so much better and he keeps telling her that I am not going anywhere and that he Loves Me and shes going to have to deal but she wont stand for it.
Everytime we go out to eat with her and her parents I get dirty looks from them all and they try and make me feel uncomfortable but it doesnt work. I stand my ground and keep myself in the conversation.
After all this has been going on my FI is sayin that he doesnt even want to invite that side of his family. He wants me to have a stress free day and he doesnt want her to mess anything up by getting drunk and acting crazy or something.
I keep thinking this is the way to go but I dont want him to regret not inviting his mom. Should I send the invite to her and her family or should I just let it go and say ok, since he dont want her there then well do it our way without her?