OMG!!!! My father is stuck on having an all white party like P Diddy does every year!!! I have explained to him just because we are going to Hawaii to get married that we still have to come back and have a Wedding Reception not a party... He wants all my guests to wear casual all white... Only the bride is Sapose to be in white!!!! I will not stick out in a sea our guests that are dressed in white!!! How do I tell him without hurting his feelings??? I am his baby girl and this is his first wedding he is participating in since my mother is deceased????