I am having issues with alcohol. We know we want it there but we have certain people on both sides of the family that are alcoholics and dont want those issues on our big day. For our budget a cash bar or a beer/wine reception is what makes sense. In the area we are from cash bars are common but I dont know his family that well and dont want to offend anyone plus he isnt to close to his family so i dont know how they would take it.. or to save money my parents make homemade wine and we might just have their wine and a couple kegs? Need some advice? We are from a small town so some etiquette for big fancy weddings doesnt really apply to everything for our day...