So my dad has been hassling me for months now about getting a date set for our wedding. We originally wanted it to be in July, but due to finances we're having to push it back to either October or January - but because of FI's daughter (she's 5, and her mom is very difficult to deal with sometimes), it's extremely difficult to get a date set without her confirming that we'll be able to have her during that time.
I've explained this to my dad COUNTLESS times, and all he keeps saying is that "a lot of things are happening around that time of year, we need to know your date because our plans will stall until you have a date".
I really appreciate him putting things off, but the other things that are happening really don't seem like something worthy of all this pressure. I'm frustrated enough about not having a date set, and it really doesn't help to have my family pressuring me when it's not really in my hands. Any advice for getting him to back off? I really don't want to be rude or snap at him, but I'm kinda losing it with all the stress.
CN: Dad is pressuring me to set a date, but I can't just yet. How to get him to (nicely) back off?
Thank you!